20 Secrets to a Happy and Lasting Marriage: Tips for Men and Women

Building a Strong and Loving Marriage: Advice for Couple

SECRETS OF LONG LASTING MARRIAGE LIFE

 FOR THE MEN :

• Never spend a week without giving her a gift.
• Don’t be a dictator over her, always let her choose what she likes as long as it’s Islamically acceptable
• A man never shouts at her without insulting her.
• Ask her to give you advice about some of your daily activities even if you can’t work with it.
• Always play with her and let her win you.
• Ask her to stay idle and do the house work once in a while.
• Always thank her for the little things she does. E.g food, glass of water etc.
• Never let a day pass without kissing her.
• Ask her about her parents or relatives occasionally.
• Let her know how you feel about her. And the parts of her body that you can’t resist.
• Always treat her like a baby or someone who needs care.

FOR THE WOMEN :

• Don’t ever argue with him even if he is wrong. Keep quiet and show him the truth later, you can do that in bed for a more effective result.
• Always ask about his suggestion in what you are about to do.
• Never let him ask for food or drink. Give it to him even if he doesn’t ask for it.
• Always respect him.
• When he is sitting doing nothing, come and sit on his lap like a baby and start behaving childishly.
• Surprise him with his favourite perfume on the bed sheet.
• Pray for him Always before he goes out and ask him to take good care of himself.
• Let him feel like a king, he will treat you like a queen.

May we all be granted pious spouses who will be the coolness of our eyes and who will lead us to Jannah.