The 4 Most Influential Women in a Man’s Life: How to Treat Them with Respect and Care

THE 4 MOST INFLUENTIAL WOMEN IN A MAN’S LIFE AND HOW HE SHOULD TREAT THEM…

Honoring the Women in Your Life: A Guide for Men

1-HIS MOTHER…

Lower your wings of honour, have mercy upon her, and be dutiful to her, for indeed Paradise lies under the feet lies of the mothers.  

Allāh ﷻ said (in what is translated to mean): “We have commanded people to be good to their parents: their mothers carried them, with strain upon strain, and it takes two years to wean them. Give thanks to Me and to your parents — all will return to Me.” [Luqman 31:14] 

2- HIS SISTER…

She is your companion at home as grow up side by side, learning about life together. She will probably remain in your family long after your parents are gone, so befriend her, support and take care of her. 

3-. HIS WIFE …

She is the cloak of intimacy on you. No body gets to know you closer than your wife. She is your comfort and support in your struggles. Be the love of her life. 

{هُنَّ لِبَاسٌ لَّـكُمْ وَأنْـتُمْ لِبَاسٌ لَّهُنَّ}

They are clothing for you and you are clothing for them.”

 [Al-Baqara 2: Verse 187] 

4- HIS DAUGHTER…

She fills your home with joy and laughter. She is a precious flower that will blossom to being a care-giver. Teach her and guide her to become an exemplary wife and mother when she eventually gets married. It is she that will bear the cream of all your children – your grand children, so be a pillar of strength to her…

May Allah bless these women with the highest stages of Jannatul firdous.