It happens. People fall out of love and become disinterested. But how do you tell when your husband isn’t into you anymore or isn’t taking the marriage seriously? You could just ask, but he may pretend everything’s okay and you won’t get a real answer.
So if you suspect your husband has been experiencing a change of heart in your relationship, here are some signs that may just confirm it. If you’re experiencing any of that, then your marriage is in danger and you need to sit together and solve it or better still.
You aren’t invited to family events and he doesn’t tell you about his plans. He keeps his life very personal and quiet, and you’re always guessing whether that’s his nature. That’s not his nature, he is tired of the marriage and he’s trying to keep you off little by little.
If he’s looking at or talking about other girls, he doesn’t have eyes for you and that’s an obvious sign of disinterest. He’s actually finding other ladies more attractive than you and probably could lead him to adultery which is totally forbidden in Islam.
He doesn’t ask you about your day, and even if he does, he sounds disinterested and doesn’t ask for more. He’s just going through the motions but wants the conversation to be over before it’s even started..
Is your husband constantly picking fights with you and misinterpreting everything you say? Do you feel like you’re running around in circles and defending yourself even when you’re being nice? Unless you’re spending time in code, there’s a bigger problem and it has nothing to do with you.
Sorry is just a word unless there’s a real effort made not to make the same mistake again. He says sorry when he cheats [cheating is completely Haram], sorry when he slaps you, sorry when you catch him with another lady… He will start singing you the song “Sorry”.
Having sex is not a means of keeping a relationship interesting when you don’t care about satisfying your partner sexually. It’s good to cuddle, caress, kiss, romance etc before sex but when the only compliments are about your body and all of your time together feels like a means to an end… And all he does is to jump into you like a horse unlike before wherein he used to make you wet and you had to plead out of enjoyment before he engaged into sex!
You have full conversations that he cannot recollect. You tell him in the morning that you’re sick but by evening he doesn’t care to ask how you’re feeling and when you remind him, he says he forgot, etc.
If the only thing he remembers is your food and his favorite bra-and-panty set, there’s a problem with your relationship because that’s all about his personal interest and he neither cares about you or your family.
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