Topics: Spouse

20 Secrets to a Happy and Lasting Marriage: Tips for Men and Women

Building a Strong and Loving Marriage: Advice for Couple

SECRETS OF LONG LASTING MARRIAGE LIFE

 FOR THE MEN :

  • Never spend a week without giving her a gift.
  • Don’t be a dictator over her, always let her choose what she likes as long as it’s Islamically acceptable
  • A man never shouts at her without insulting her.
  • Ask her to give you advice about some of your daily activities even if you can’t work with it.
  • Always play with her and let her win you.
  • Ask her to stay idle and do the house work once in a while.
  • Always thank her for the little things she does. E.g food, glass of water etc.
  • Never let a day pass without kissing her.
  • Ask her about her parents or relatives occasionally.
  • Let her know how you feel about her. And the parts of her body that you can’t resist.
  • Always treat her like a baby or someone who needs care.

FOR THE WOMEN :

  • Don’t ever argue with him even if he is wrong. Keep quiet and show him the truth later, you can do that in bed for a more effective result.
  • Always ask about his suggestion in what you are about to do.
  • Never let him ask for food or drink. Give it to him even if he doesn’t ask for it.
  • Always respect him.
  • When he is sitting doing nothing, come and sit on his lap like a baby and start behaving childishly.
  • Surprise him with his favourite perfume on the bed sheet.
  • Pray for him Always before he goes out and ask him to take good care of himself.
  • Let him feel like a king, he will treat you like a queen.

May we all be granted pious spouses who will be the coolness of our eyes and who will lead us to Jannah.

Author: IslamicHelper

IslamicHelper

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