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Building a Strong and Loving Marriage: Advice for Couple
SECRETS OF LONG LASTING MARRIAGE LIFE
Β FOR THE MEN :
Never spend a week without giving her a gift.
Don’t be a dictator over her, always let her choose what she likes as long as itβs Islamically acceptable
A man never shouts at her without insulting her.
Ask her to give you advice about some of your daily activities even if you can’t work with it.
Always play with her and let her win you.
Ask her to stay idle and do the house work once in a while.
Always thank her for the little things she does. E.g food, glass of water etc.
Never let a day pass without kissing her.
Ask her about her parents or relatives occasionally.
Let her know how you feel about her. And the parts of her body that you can’t resist.
Always treat her like a baby or someone who needs care.
FOR THE WOMEN :
Don’t ever argue with him even if he is wrong. Keep quiet and show him the truth later, you can do that in bed for a more effective result.
Always ask about his suggestion in what you are about to do.
Never let him ask for food or drink. Give it to him even if he doesn’t ask for it.
Always respect him.
When he is sitting doing nothing, come and sit on his lap like a baby and start behaving childishly.
Surprise him with his favourite perfume on the bed sheet.
Pray for him Always before he goes out and ask him to take good care of himself.
- Let him feel like a king, he will treat you like a queen.
May we all be granted pious spouses who will be the coolness of our eyes and who will lead us to Jannah.