Especially the sisters who really need to read and understand this!
When your Tawheed is strong, you don’t seek marriage as your ultimate solution in life where you give your entire happiness to marriage and tell yourself it will fix all of your problems.
Of course there is context. A person’s hardship might make them feel marriage will fix some problems but that’s the reality, it will fix ‘some’.
As for your ultimate happiness, it is with Allāh.
You need contentment in your heart and you need to find joy in worshipping Allah and yearn to improve day by day.
As for marriage, it’s a blessing from Allāh and it’s natural to have a partner to grow with and build a family with and be in love with, but don’t make it your only objective in life.
It’s only a stepping stone towards your ultimate mission of being the best Muslim you can be.
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