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How to Stop Obsessing Over a Girl: Islamic Advice for Students

Overcoming Infatuation: A Guide for Muslim Students

Question:

How to Stop Obsessing Over a Girl In Our (High school/College/University’s/Etc…)?

Answer:

Fear Allāhﷻ and Lower your Gaze, Constantly Remind Yourself of This. Get Married or Fast if you Can’t to Control your Deisres.

Aisha رضي الله عنها :

The Messenger of Allāhﷻ Muhammad ﷺ Said:

“Marriage is part of my Sunnah. Whoever does Not act Upon my Sunnah is Not part of Me. Give each other in marriage, for I will Boast of your Great numbers Before the Nation’s. Whoever has the Means, let him Contract a Marriage. Whoever does Not have the Means should Fast, as Fasting will Restrain his Impulses.”

: Sunan Ibn Ma‌jah 1846

Prevention is better than cure, so Avoid being Near this girl at All Times, Move to a Seat where you Can’t even See her. Another nice tip for the Brother’s is wear a Cap, sounds Weird but it Helps a lot with lowering your gaze, Wear it low as Comfortable Possible and Constantly remind yourself fear Allāhﷻ and Lower your Gaze. Also, this Applies too all Issue’s of Sinning, Seek knowledge, because when you seek knowledge you Understand more the right of Allāhﷻ upon you, you Understand Allāhﷻ more so you Fear Him more, you Long for Jannah more Because you Understand what a Beautiful place it is, and so on.

Also the ending, it should be

والله أعلم

Author: IslamicHelper

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