How Faith and Good Character Can Overcome Social Barriers in Islam
Abdullah ibn al-Mubarak said:
“The people in the time of ignorance used to marry for lineage, the Jews married for wealth and the Christians for beauty, but this Ummah married for religion!”
[حياة عبد الله بن المبارك صحفة ٦]
The story of Julaybeeb, a Sahabi of the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ), is a testament to the power of iman, sabr, and the transformative influence of piety. Despite his physical challenges and unknown lineage, Julaybeeb’s story serves as a beacon of hope for those feeling lonely and rejected.
Julaybeeb was short, had a deformed appearance, and his nasab was unknown. He had no clan to protect him, and no tribe was willing to accept him as their own. This led to his isolation in society, and he was often the subject of mockery, even by the children of Madinah. His physical disabilities further marginalized him, as people would not allow him to sit in their gatherings.
However, Julaybeeb’s life took a remarkable turn when the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) recognized his piety and proposed on his behalf to a woman from a noble family. Initially, the woman’s parents were hesitant due to Julaybeeb’s lack of wealth and status. But their daughter, upon hearing of the Prophet’s proposal, reminded them of the importance of taqwa in Islam and agreed to marry Julaybeeb, trusting in Allāh.
Their marriage was blessed, and Julaybeeb’s status in society changed dramatically. He became a brave warrior, defending the Ummah in battle. His wife, known for her beauty and righteousness, was a beacon of iman and tawakkul in Allah.
The story of Julaybeeb is a powerful reminder of the Islamic values of humility, taqwa, and the importance of good character over worldly status. It provides inspiration and hope for those who feel alone and rejected, demonstrating that iman and good character can overcome even the most challenging circumstances.
Ya Allah, guide us to a righteous spouse who will be a source of comfort and strength in our lives. Bless our marriages, making them a means for us to grow in faith and righteousness. Grant us the joy of righteous offspring who will carry the light of Islam for generations to come.