Why Having Sex Before Marriage Can Lead to Heartbreak and Regret
SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE:
Before he sleeps with you;
- He loves you
- He cared for you
- He called you every time.
- He always checked on you
- He promised to never leave you.
- He promised to stand by you no matter what.
He was kind and handsome. He promised to marry you BOOM!!! that day he asked for sex. You were shocked. You hesitated to agree, but…
You later agreed because you don’t want to make him angry… You thought he was a good guy. You thought he would keep all his promises…
Sweetheart, what were you thinking before?.
Were you expecting him to treat you the same while you have nothing else special for him to crave? Were you expecting him to value you while you have proven to be cheap to him?
Were you expecting him to stay after he has used you and gotten every exciting part about you?
What else would you have to offer?
What else would you have to be proud of?
He’s gonna move on and start chasing other girls.
He’s gonna move on like he has never had any relationship with you
He’s gonna move on unaffected
You gave him all your pride and dignity and he was happy YOU HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE
Then, He started asking for more sex.
Suddenly,
He began to act strangely. He began to show less care. He began to get mad at you over little things. He began to cheat. He began to use harsh words on you and he began to see you as a disturbance to him.
You know WHY?
Just because you had nothing special to him anymore. Just because you had nothing for him to crave for anymore. Just because you seem so cheap to him.
He can’t marry you anymore because there will be nothing for him to be excited about since he has gotten all the excitement married couples should be excited about??
Stop wondering where things went wrong, it’s straight, things went wrong the day you let him have sex with you.
Now, you are left with regrets, Tears, Broken heart, Disappointments, and Wonders.
Let me tell you this my dear, Every guy is afraid of breaking up with a Lady he never had sex with, but once they have that sex, the fear is now on you to break up with him.
Sweetheart, it’s far better to break up with him because you refused to have the sex than breaking up with him because you had the sex.
Remember, if he truly loves you he can patiently wait.
Don’t agree even if your parents know him.
Don’t agree even if he has introduced you to his parents. Don’t agree!!! I repeat, Don’t agree!!!
Guys are very good at faking feelings.
I DON’T WANT YOU TO CRY FULL OF REGRETS.
And to those that already made such a mistake, It’s okay, repent sincerely and Just be strong and never let that happen again.
Never trust any guy when it comes to sex!!!
My dear, that’s your only weapon against those FAKE guys!!!
Note!!!: Not all guys are the same but only a little are different. So to be on the safer side, assume all of us are the same by standing on the principle that no sex before marriage or out of wedlock!