Essential Traits and Daily Practices of a High-Value Muslimah
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐇𝐢𝐠𝐡 𝐕𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐞 𝐌𝐮𝐬𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐚𝐡
She does her morning and evening athkaar and remembers Allah at every point of her day.
She has a daily wird (portion) of Qur’aan that she reads and ponders upon without fail.
She guards her salawaat and prays them properly and on time and with her heart fully present and concentrated.
She strives to increase her knowledge of her Lord and His religion daily and doesn’t make excuses.
She makes her bed in the morning and keeps her environment and house 𝐜𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐧.
She keeps herself clean, hygienic, and looking and smelling beautiful and presentable if she’s staying at home.
She only leaves if she needs to, and when she does, she maintains the proper legislated hijab.
She doesn’t talk to non-mahram men unnecessarily.
She is at the service of her parents and family and she is of her best character with them even when they may be difficult
With her husband, she is loving, caring, and she obeys him in that which is good, respects him and is grateful to him.
Her friends are also practising Muslimaat and they call each other towards good and forbid each other from evil things that displease Allah.
When she is corrected she is not arrogant, and when she is complimented she is not proud. She remembers that all her favours come from her Lord and is not arrogant.
She does things for others for the sake of Allah, so if she doesn’t receive thanks she is not affected by it.
She stays away from idle talk, gossiping and wasting time doing things that will not help her such as watching TV shows or reading Western fiction books.
She doesn’t spend hours on social media and if she has it she only uses it to benefit herself, and to keep in touch with friends and family
With her children, she is not too strict and not too lenient. She is loving and nurturing and sets the proper example for them.
When she hears a ruling from the Qur’an and Sunnah she submits to it without questioning or making excuses.
May Allah allow us to develop these characteristics and more.
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