Guidance on Eating at a Home Where a Family Member Accepts Bribes
Question: I visited a relative’s house to check on someone who was ill. The husband of my relative told my husband that his son occasionally accepts bribes when necessary, and he works for a construction company. Because of this, I never eat at their house, but today, they insisted, so I refused to eat, using the excuse that I won’t eat until they visit our home. The truth is, I don’t have the courage to explain the real reason. Can you offer me some guidance on this matter?
Answer: The first thing to note is that if a person earns both halal and haram income, it is permissible to accept their invitation. However, if a person’s entire income is haram, then one should not eat at their house. Secondly, if we know someone is engaged in a wrongful act, it is our duty to advise them. Whether directly, through your husband, or a third person, the truth should be conveyed. While the person likely knows that bribery is haram, as a reminder and as a duty of faith, they should be advised.
Response by: Sheikh Maqbool Ahmad Salafi (Hafizahullaah)
Jeddah Dawah Center, Hai Al-Salamah – Saudi Arabia
Interpreter: Hasan Fuzail