Strengthen Your Marriage: Avoid These 8 Pitfalls
WHAT WEAKENS MARRIAGE
1. MISBEHAVING:
Saying bad or hateful things, making bad jokes and insulting each other.
2. IGNORE
Not replying back to the “salams” or giving each other the good ear to listen and share.
3. LYING
Allah forbids the believers to lie. There is no room in Islam for liars, and may Allah save us from this evil, ameen.
4. BREAKING PROMISES
Keeping a trust is also an important characteristic of a believer.
5. AVOIDING INTIMACY
You hug the brothers at the mosque, but what about a “little hug” with your wife? Come on, you can do it.
6. SUSPICION & BACKBITING
Allah says, “O believers, avoid much suspicion. Certainly suspicion is sinful. And don’t spy or backbite each other. Would any of you like to eat the flesh of your dead brother? You would hate it. Fear Allah’s punishment. For sure Allah is the Acceptor of repentance, The Merciful.”
[Quran 49: 12]
7. TOO BUSY
Take time for each other. You have rights for each other. Give everyone their rights and you will be given your rights.
8. NOT PRAYING
Allah will never be pleased with someone who leaves His guidance and does not worship Him. This will cause Muslim families serious problems and even to split up, faster than anything!
May Allah protect you and give everything you want for your family. Please be just in your house. And Take care of them.
They need it.
May Allah ﷲﷻ make our families the coolness of our eyes Ameen.
Put your trust in Allah Insha’Allah
May Allah ﷲﷻ bless all our Marriages Ameen.