Building a Strong and Loving Marriage: Advice for Couple
SECRETS OF LONG LASTING MARRIAGE LIFE
FOR THE MEN :
Never spend a week without giving her a gift.- Don’t be a dictator over her, always let her choose what she likes as long as it’s Islamically acceptable
- A man never shouts at her without insulting her.
- Ask her to give you advice about some of your daily activities even if you can’t work with it.
- Always play with her and let her win you.
- Ask her to stay idle and do the house work once in a while.
- Always thank her for the little things she does. E.g food, glass of water etc.
- Never let a day pass without kissing her.
- Ask her about her parents or relatives occasionally.
- Let her know how you feel about her. And the parts of her body that you can’t resist.
- Always treat her like a baby or someone who needs care.
Never spend a week without giving her a gift.FOR THE WOMEN :
- Don’t ever argue with him even if he is wrong. Keep quiet and show him the truth later, you can do that in bed for a more effective result.
- Always ask about his suggestion in what you are about to do.
- Never let him ask for food or drink. Give it to him even if he doesn’t ask for it.
- Always respect him.
- When he is sitting doing nothing, come and sit on his lap like a baby and start behaving childishly.
- Surprise him with his favourite perfume on the bed sheet.
- Pray for him Always before he goes out and ask him to take good care of himself.
- Let him feel like a king, he will treat you like a queen.
May we all be granted pious spouses who will be the coolness of our eyes and who will lead us to Jannah.